That is supposed to love (the story of the Prophet)

Abu Ayyub al-Ansari, God scent name in the East and the West and raised in rank in the creation of other creatures when He chose Abu Ayyub's house as a temporary shelter for the noble Prophet who had emigrated to Medina. Menginapnya Prophet in the house of Abu Ayyub is a very beautiful story to be remembered again.
Imagine. At that time the Prophet arrived in Medina with celebrated by the entire population. All eyes stared longingly at his beloved as the heart. They all opened their doors, hoping that the noble Prophet willing to stay in their place.
But the Prophet was living in a village located two miles from Medina, the village of Quba '. Here he makes the first mosque built on the basis of taqwa.
Then he rode his camel out. Yathrib city leaders tried to stop him. Each wanted to have the honor to be a place to stay by the Prophet alaihi wa sallam. They hinder the course of his riding camel and pleading, "Stay in my house and all perlegkapan you, O Messenger of Allah. We will guarantee your safety. "
Prophet said, "Let the camel is running riot because he was ruled by God."
Went on camel's eyes followed the greeter. When he passed one house, the owner felt vanished hopes to be host to the Prophet. Instead the owner of the next house to wait with anticipation of their homes will be chosen by the Prophet 'alaihi wa sallam.
But the camel kept on walking. The men followed him with curiosity. Finally he came disuatu vacant land in front of the house of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari. That's where he stopped and sat down.
But the Prophet did not go down. Soon the camel's up and running again. Messenger release the reins. Not far to walk, he turned and sat in his place.
Happiness unpredictable Abu Ayyub al-Ansari. He immediately approached the Prophet and unloaded his luggage. I think everything in the world gathered at his house ....

Abu Ayyub's house consists of two floors. He intended to clear the goods on the floor above to get the occupied by the Prophet. But the Prophet chose to stay on the ground floor so that Abu Ayyub he will obey it.
When the night, the Prophet went to dusk, while Abu Ayyub and his wife upstairs. After closing the door, said Abu Ayyub, "Wife, what do we do this? Messenger under and we are on it? Is it something like this? We are in between the prophet and the revelation that will come down to him!
The second night the couple was nervous and did not know what to do. They get away from the middle of the room expected the Prophet slept under it. If you want to go to the other side of the room, they went against the wall because it did not want to walk on the Prophet.
In the morning, Abu Ayyub to Rasulllah frank, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah through the night I could not close my eyes, so it is with ummu Ayyub."
The Prophet asked, "Is why, O Abu Ayyub?"
"I remember how I was on top while you are under. If I move, then the dust will fall from above and disturb you. In addition, I was in between revelation and you. "
Messenger calm him, "Calm down, Abu Ayyub. Actually I felt more comfortable under, because the future of many guests are coming. "
Abu Ayyub Berkisahlah:
I followed the Messenger option. But on a very cold night, we drank the water jug and the water falling down the floor. Meanwhile, the only thing that can be used to wipe only blanket that we use. So, without thinking we were mopping water spills immediately with a blanket before already trickled down and about the Prophet.
The next day I went to the Prophet and said, "For bundaku father, O Messenger of Allah, I really can not live on you." I told him about the broken pitcher. He finally received my reasons and are willing to move to the top, while Umm Ayyub and I went downstairs.

Prophet alaihi wa sallam lived in Abu Ayyub's house for about seven months, ie until the mosque on land occupied by the camel he was finished. Later he and his wife live in the cubicles next to the mosque. He became a neighbor of Abu Ayyub, who led the neighbors get the glory and virtue.
Abu Ayyub love the Prophet with all-consuming love of reason and his heart. He also loves Abu Ayyub with love that eliminate barriers between Abu Ayyub and considers himself as the Prophet, Abu Ayyub's house as the house itself.

quoted from: The figure of the Companions of the Prophet, DR. Rafat Abd Al-Basya, pan I, October 1996, CV.Pustaka Matiq

what is sought from a love?

affection? sincerity to give? willingness to share? or a more extreme, sexual satisfaction?

all depends on our intention to live a relationship.

affection

the relationship of love and affection, which will take them through it to feel a comfort in touch. love that is created at the end of the bottom of our hearts. as much as any other love-love that he entered it will only occupy a position on it. This condition means that love will never be replaced by other flavors. because the love is very ingrained in the hearts of those who feel. and another love will only stop a moment and then walk away.





sincerity to give

basically when we genuinely give our automatic can feel the love from the relationship. many factors that cause us to give sincere. well give love, understanding, compassion, and others. any material even sometimes it does not matter. own some sort of happiness when we are able to give something to our spouse. there was never a sense for returned, even to expect back. sometimes becomes a necessity for us to give. as our responsibility. not forced to because it was bound status, but the responsibility for the feelings to myself.





willingness to share

This condition usually occurs when your partner is having a problem. we really have love on the basis of affection, should we want to share. but common condition that occurs now is when your partner is having problems, we instead go left. like the saying that says "sweet junk out of waste". should we have to be otherwise. we must have our partners in times needed. be a good listener, able to solve problems even couples. believe it or not, when we are able to solve problems of our partners, it will make our relationship more closely. because our partners will treat us as the hero of his life.






looking for materials / property

Such people can say matre. everything can be measured only in terms of material / money. he dared to do anything to get what he thinks people have an advantage in terms of material. no love at all in his heart when establishing a relationship. there is only lies and deceit. he dared to say love when he will or are getting money from her partner. but after he got what he wanted, he would leave the words of love are spoken in the beginning. sadistic ya ...






sex satisfaction

between love and lust. two things is what happens in a relationship that relies on sexual satisfaction. sex is a form or an outlet of love. when we do sex relationships, we automatically feel the vibrations of love in every movement of our bodies. the beginning of the gaze, breathing sighs, shakes his tongue, the touch of his hand, until the movement of our hips. but the reality now, sex does not have two beings who love each other. only concerned with the satisfaction they desire. percentage between love and lust are not balanced. desire more control of ourselves. while the love is felt only when we enjoy sex game. after we satisfied to the point of climax, suddenly there's love away. this happens by those who are hungry for sex. more severe, not only men who rely solely on the sex related. Basically women who have higher degrees, too many like that. the world was mad.

how about there? love like what you were looking for?
(by : wahyu)