Is difficult to accept infidelity in a marriage, but it is not impossible to repair.
Imagine if you find your partner having an affair. Surely there is a sense of profound shock, hurt, betrayed, angry, disappointed, feeling
guilt, jealousy, and certainly all the dreams that had been built with as if it were destroyed in a short time.
Then arose many questions that haunt, like, "What's wrong with me?", "Why did this all happen?", "Do I really know my partner?" And so on. All sense and mind is something that arises naturally in a person who just knew the betrayal spouse. The question is, can a marriage that has been nurtured for so long can be sustained? The answer is 'can' and 'no'.
To answer 'could' if the couple husband and wife involved benarbenar have a desire to improve and maintain the marriage. With that desire, then the pair would engage in open communication about this issue, in order to improve marriage. Not easy, especially for the injured party. But why not make this ordeal to be land to improve themselves, and improve relationships with partners. To answer 'no' if one violates commitments have been made with, or the betrayed spouse can no longer trust their partners and leverage ongoing incident. If you have this, check that your wedding destination, whether that goal was enough
strong to serve as the foundation in berumahtangga, or are in need of revision if they feel the marriage is still important enough to be maintained.
If you want to maintain the integrity of marriage, there are some things you can try, among others:
1 Try to share with the right person, or you believe to be people who will not disturb the atmosphere. If the perceived problem was too heavy, why not try to consult with an expert, like a psychologist or marriage counselor.
2 Communicate feelings, desires, and your mind open together with a desire based on truly to improve the situation. Who knows by this disclosure to be more familiar with your spouse, and vice versa, which makes your relationship more closely.
3 Understand the causes of spouse may be cheating because adultery is an indicator of a larger problem again in a relationship. Try
to conduct self-introspection and improve together.
4 Journey marriage after the affair occurred is no longer easy. However, with the old sheet and close together over a new leaf - who knows - it is a bitter story will strengthen your relationship.
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